Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Blog for Choice



I'm one of those relitively rare animales, an anti abortion pro choicer. Yes I think abortions are horrible awful things, but I also belive they should be legal, safe , and easily availible. I firmly belive that life begins at conception, and all life is precious. I also belive that until the child is able to exist outside the womb it is a parisite. If a woman is put into the position of not being able to physically or mentally carry a pregnancy to term safely then she should have the option to abort the child. I've been in the position of not being allowed to choose when where or how I had sex, if I'd gotten pregnant then I would have died rather than carry my rapists baby to term. I've known girls who were raped by their fathers, and killed once the father discovered they were pregnant. (He was trying to hide the fact that he was rapeing them.) I am also a child whose mother went against a doctors reccomendation that she abort (pre Wade). I could have easily killed my mother, but she wanted me enough to refuse the abortion her Doctors wanted to give her.The issue of legal abortions is one where emotions get hot very easily. In an ideal world no abortions would be needed. Every pregnancy would be considered a blessing and every child would be wanted. We don't live in an ideal world.In our world females get raped, get pregnant when health issues can kill them, get pregnant when they can't feed the children they have, birth control fails, ect. . .In our world safe legal abortions are a nessacary evil, and they should remain safe, and legal as well as haveing costs reduced.

8 comments:

pyxiwulf said...

Yes, yes, yes. All of this, yes. Thank you.

he2tafon9p92 said...

I saw a note in one of my communities about the blog for choice thing, I figured that it was a good idea and it was something I had been thinking about this week.Hugs offered

zonrcagutieriem77 said...

I consider myself the same as you ... antiabortion but pro choice. While I don't think I could have one and live with myself, I don't believe it's anybody else's place to tell a woman what to do with her body, her child, or her health.

seecatsmile said...

Hug happily accepted.

pixiechicksw said...

Well-said; would you mind if I reposted it (mostly as-is, with credit and acknowledging that I may have changed a word here or there?) in my journal?

ogldtips6 said...

And I think it's a shame when someone feels they must do the abortion themselves. It's not unheard of and it's also life-threatening...so many things can happen to the female but maybe they were just too afraid to see a clinic.Also, father's pushing their daughters down stairways so that they have a forced abortion. I've known a few girls that had this done to them.I would never have an abortion but I can fully relate to people who do it. If I had been older and had gotten pregnant by my rapist then maybe it would be an option for me since I would be so scared.I also think that there are enough children in the world waiting for parents. I wouldn't want to give my child up for adoption just to find out later that he/she went through life saying, "Nobody wanted to adopt me and my real parents didn't want me so I'm honestly a useless piece of human chunk."Hmm...

besth6lidazyo2 said...

go ahead, sorry I didn't see this till this morning.

nocleopatra said...

I amusingly agree with most of what you say. I should write my thoughts out sometime.